Dating single mother child support
The stereotype against singles mothers is such that every aspect of their existence is held under the microscope: is she went out, she wasn’t responsible; if she receives child support, she looking for a free ride and only thinks of the dad as a paycheck; if she gets a sitter, she’s abandoning her children; if she works too much, too little…. This is especially true for “Young Single Mothers.” The women who had babies while still nothing more than kids themselves.
Or the women like my mother who at 30 years old with an 11 and 9 year old standing beside her and a toddler wrestling an imaginary dragon in her arms was still frequently pegged in her early to mid-20s.
Source: Shutterstock After sharing a guest-post on step-parenting from the step-child’s point of view, one commenter asked an interesting question: “Should a man with no kids be hesitant to date a woman with kids?
” First, whether a man has children of his own or not, there is nothing wrong with preferring to date women without children.
There was a time when single mothers were a rare sight in society.
Some were widowed, some sought divorces from abusive spouses, and some were abandoned.
She’s been in a relationship and knows how it can end.Fears of a loss of independence or instant fatherhood responsibilities can come crashing down.There is also a financial concern, since instant families can have instant needs for support.We weren’t just a couple of near-teenage boys being dumb, reckless and all out disobedient.We were an example of everything wrong with society.